Enough is enough
My kids are pigs. Executive function problems or not, my kids have stepped on Bonnie and me for years when it comes to picking up after themselves and keeping their things organized, and I've had quite enough of it.
I told them in no uncertain terms that they had until the end of the weekend to pick up their rooms, and anything left on the floor would be sent to the dump come Monday.
I've got all next week to clean their rooms from top to bottom if I have to. I'm taking the week off, as I have some vacation time to use before the end of the quarter or I lose it.
Enough is enough.