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Kidults

There's an interesting article in Sunday's New York Times Style section about the trend of adults who share the interests of their kids. Given that I'm as inclined to play video games as Bob is and that Bonnie and Emme both share a profound love Hello Kitty, this is something we're quite cognizant of in our house, even if we didn't put a name on it.

As it turns out, according the article, it's a widespread enough phenomenon that it's something that has attracted the attention of marketing executives and sociologists alike. The Madison Ave. set has coined terms like "rejuveniles" and "kidults" to pithily identify this group of consumers.

Leave it to the tweed-jacket contingent to take the piss out of this trend. One sociology professor from the U.K., Frank Furedi (his name is misspelled in the article), calls this a new wave of infantilism, and said, "Today, the way you demonstrate your worth is the extent to which you still go to rock concerts, you're still groovy, you're still a player."

I think that's Furedi's observation may be colored by his academic focus: From what I could find on the Web, his specialty is examining factors in social anxiety. So of course, Furedi is going to observe this trend from a negative perspective. From where I sit, it's got nothing to do with a need for validation in a youth-oriented culture, and I couldn't care less about being "groovy." I feel no guilt or shame in admitting that I like many of the same things I did when I was eighteen. I feel no guilt or shame in admitting that I dislike many of the things I liked when I was eighteen, too.

I don't see anything wrong with 20 and 30-somethings sharing the interests of kids, as long as they're realistic about it: Eventually those kids -- mine too -- are going to become teenagers, and at that point, it's going to be uncool to do or to say anything your parents like.

The question I'm left with is, where will this leave my kids? I've got both ears pierced and I still fire up Tool and Bauhaus to room-shaking levels on a regular basis, and Bonnie and I shop at Hot Topic more often than not.

For our generation, a reaction against our ex-hippy parents spawned a brief era of neo-conservatism with preppies and yuppies suddenly "in." Family Ties' Alex P. Keaton -- Michael J. Fox's character -- may have been satirical, but there was a grain of truth in him too. I'm not saying that every kid my age in the 80s was like him -- lord knows I wasn't, but the fact was, our counterculture *was* to wear a tie and penny loafers, to a certain extent -- at least for a while.

So, with an ex-punker for a dad and an ex-Goth for a mom, what'll happen to our kids? I have visions of my children coming home one day in Elizabethan collars or something -- just trying to express their individuality.

Comments

It's easy to be "into" the same things as Flargh's kids because their interests are cool, including anime, chess, and SpongeBob Squarepants.

From the article: a full 26 percent of SpongeBob's regular audience is over 18

Over 18? How about over 30? 40? (Ahem)50?

*cough*Warhammer.

Yeah, the difference is that Warhammer is for socially maladjusted geeks fond of gluing their eyelids shut, not "normal" kids.

That nitwit academic has his head shoved so far up his arse in anal retentiveness that has to criticise anyone who enjoys something. There seems to be an academic study claiming that everyone has some sort of mental illness for doing something they don't understand. Idiots.

Warhammer= table top gaming for those who thought Battletech was too complicated.

Lagwolf... go thin out your mascara and leave the tough discussion to the grown-ups, alright?

Wow. The estrogen hangs heavy in the air like fog on the dusky moors. Cat fight! Cat fight!

Mascara? Me? Not needed mate, I naturally look that way. Or are you upset I slagged off Warcamper 40k?

It's "Warhomo", you Battletech-playing cocksucker git.